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sulwenLook under the cut for a rant about anal sex in fanfic, which includes what is probably way too much information about my own sex life:
Ok, so I love reading fic, especially porny fic written by really good authors. But sometimes things become accepted in fandom that don't reflect reality, and when that gets in the way of my porn, it pisses me off - especially when it starts to show up in the really good fic. The trend that I'm referring to at the moment is this idea that anal sex always hurts. This is NOT TRUE. Sure, it hurts the first few times, just like vaginal sex. But, and I'm speaking from much experience here, your body eventually adjusts. If you're having anal sex on a regular basis - as many, many people in these fics are - there's not going to be much preparation needed, if any. So stop talking about how much it hurts and wasting my time on frustratingly slow finger fucking. Mmk?
Ok, so I love reading fic, especially porny fic written by really good authors. But sometimes things become accepted in fandom that don't reflect reality, and when that gets in the way of my porn, it pisses me off - especially when it starts to show up in the really good fic. The trend that I'm referring to at the moment is this idea that anal sex always hurts. This is NOT TRUE. Sure, it hurts the first few times, just like vaginal sex. But, and I'm speaking from much experience here, your body eventually adjusts. If you're having anal sex on a regular basis - as many, many people in these fics are - there's not going to be much preparation needed, if any. So stop talking about how much it hurts and wasting my time on frustratingly slow finger fucking. Mmk?
