Oh I'm sorry, I should have defined that one too! Some of these terms are so ingrained in me that I forget they're not common knowledge. :)

I don't think there's anything wrong with wishing, thinking "oh wouldn't it be nice if..." from time to time. That doesn't make you crazy. But it's easy to take that too far, particularly when other people start coming into the picture.

It is hard on Twitter. I hate unfollowing people. You're right - you just have to find a balance. I know a lot of people use filters on Tweetdeck, and that can be a solution too.