I'm not interested in the accouterments of S&M because I think they are dopey but I like the psychology of it: "going under" "being in the right headspace" "safe words" etc... I think of actualfax Tommy as someone who enjoys the novelty of having a larger more dominant person to make out with that he has in Adam. Whether they get drunk and for real make out or just keep it to the show I think he enjoys it. I also see him as a competent dom w a girl too. He makes aggressive affectionate gestures like Adam, such as throat grabbing.